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Linda's avatar

I am not a fashion oriented person. I dress simply and usually knit shirts and jeans. If I did not wear a bra, I would be stared at all the time and not in a pleasant way. It isn't about support, but keeping them from moving all over the place. At the gym, it would be a disaster. Instead of hammering me to not wear a bra, why not come up with a design that minimizes movement, covers the nipple, and is loose fitting? I cannot implement the no bra mantra as long as I live among people who live by their eyes. My goal is to be more invisible, not a sideshow. I know someone out there understands what I am living with and is frustrated with these recommendations.

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Since the age of 15 (60 years ago) my breasts have caused me distress and embarrassment. I was an athletic kid and suddenly, as if overnight, these huge things appeared and were swinging up and around in front of me causing me terrible shame. It was not an age of good bra fitting or knowledge. As a student I heard the girls on my Hall of Residence corridor discussing ''L's revoltingly huge breasts''. I wished I could die.

Throughout my life I struggled, using 'minimiser' bras when I could. I never enjoyed my large breasts even when it became a fashion. I was mortified by them. And I had continual backache.

Now I'm 75 and have many problems from various different sources. Consequently I am disabled, living alone but for my dogs. I do not go out, hardly see anyone so dress as I feel comfortable. This is in very loose clothes and NO BRA! I feel the cold badly so wear a coat/jacket indoors.

I do not think fashion, sports, or bra makers have ever served the needs of underwear for women with large breasts and I am not holding my breath waiting for the right answer to reach every shop, lady, sports person or health worker.

Dear Dr Tenpenny, I am not in the least surprised that it is you who have brough me the answer to the misery I have secretly suffered all my adult life. You are a diamond! Thank you!

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